I am Vulnerable

Vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s the key to intimacy and community building.

Our rebellion can start from within. How many times have we wanted to share our vulnerable parts with others and were stopped by a thought “I won’t be understood” or “It’s not worth it”? How about choosing to open this time?

Every time we take the risk to show what’s really happening inside us, and we are met with openness and care, we start to learn that it is safe to be seen, safe to find support, safe to bring more of ourselves here.

Love becomes more than attraction or comfort. It provides the freedom to explore new edges, express more fully and expand — allowing for all our complexity to come into our play.

This space that holds our light and shadows can be built over time — inside ourselves, with a partner and within a broader community.

We seek positive rebellion; trying to open softly instead of hardening, leaning into the trust that we all seek for a space where we are valued for our uniqueness.

I am Touch&Play

VulneRebel is our proposal to shift from focusing “up” to authority and direction, into an expansive, horizontal gaze.

This intention starts at the level of organisation. We want to expand the field you play and explore in, with more horizontal structures — sociocracy. Touch&Play Cologne 2026 is being produced by Jukka, Inge, Dennis, Alina, Ryan, Nele, Tomas and David — with Deejay in the role of advisor.

We aim to shape safer, artfully held spaces that both provide comfort and serve as a container for taking meaningful risks together.

We invite consent work, contact improv, eros, somatics, and kink to converse and intertwine, expanding our repertoire of ways to relate. We cultivate a culture that is explicitly inclusive and allows for everyone’s inspirations to shine.

—all bodies, all ages, all relationship constellations, all nervous systems valued equally—

How do you rebel?
When are you vulnerable?

We invite you to take a vow with us: To look at how we co-create our reality when relating. We believe that this is a step towards existing in harmony with humankind and ultimately the beautiful world that is our home.

Are you ready to be a VulneRebel?

Let’s Play